Sorry for not posting anything for a while…power outages always seem to interfeer with my internet attempts. And the Kenyans still refuse to teach me how to swear in Swahili! It’s a rainy Sunday afternoon now, and the monsoon novelty has definitely worn off, let me tell you. Most days we walk from our house to the matatu stop through raging rivers, and most nights we wash the sewage off our feet. Unless there is no running water… It’s usually too rainy to hang wet laundry outside, so Kora and I put up a clothesline in our bedroom. Who knew that wet cotton underwear could attract to many fruit flies? Mine were absolutely covered last night. Sorry to gross people out. Let’s just say that my cleanliness standards have been somewhat altered during this experience…
Work is still going well when one of the volunteers doesn’t have malaria, food poisoning or similar! I have been totally fine so far (knock on wood). We had a bunch of activities for Girls Challenge Violence Day last week, which were really interesting. Attitudes towards gender are pretty different here. For instance, while most of the Kenyan guys at Kwacha firmly believe that women are not property, they care more about protecting women rather than protecting women’s rights. We facilitated a discussion about rape at a polytechnic high school in the community, and the overwhelming group attitude was that women provoke rape by dressing in a tempting manner, and that a woman who wears provocative clothing therefore “deserves” to to be raped. It left the Canadians kind of speechless. It’s really hard for me know how to respond to that type of mentality without stamping my foot and telling someone he’s wrong (and stupid!), which, rest assured, I did not do.
On the other hand, the procession we did in Jonvu the following day was a totally effective way of raising awareness about gender equality. Kwacha partnered with Big Dreams, a similar NGO, and we marched through the community with music, leaflets, dancing and singing. The procession grew as we walked, throngs of children joined in, and then everyone came back to the starting point for speeches and skits.
What else is new and exciting? This past Friday was a national holiday and we went to Shimba Hills Elephant Santuary. The rainforest experience was very cool, and we saw a few animals, though nowhere near as many as on the Tsavo safari. Of course it rained, which meant it was too slippery for the promised two hour hike to the natural waterfall. We were not impressed and feeling more than a little stir crazy, so when the safari van got stuck in a combination of mud/elephant dung, getting out to push the vehicle was the highlight of the overpriced trip. It was kind of like that scene in Little Miss Sunshine only with elephants.
And we went out with the Kenyans last night, which was super fun. It was our first night out in over a month, so it was totally welcome. I can’t stress this point enough!!! We went to a bar called Turkey Bayse (don’t ask) with live Kenyan bongo music, which is awesome. Stanley, my host family’s 25-year-old-son who lives in Malindi but was home for the weekend, came out with us as well. A few weeks ago, I innocently (and stupidly) told 13-year-old Ben, when pressed, that I thought his brother, Stanley, wasn’t a bad looking guy. Ever since, there has been endless teasing about Bridget and Stanley. And although absolutely NOTHING happened, last night was no exception. Good times!
On that note, that’s all for now. Hope everyone is well




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June 4, 2007 at 3:55 am
Krista Wells
Bridgie,
What a hilarious entry that was! I especially liked the part about you and Stanley. Too bad your list- making skills and deadlines are not being put to good use. Well enjoy your 4 weeks of vacation when you are done!
June 4, 2007 at 10:06 pm
Linda DeGregory
Hey Bridget,
It sure sounds like you are having a great time. Do you keep in touch with your parents? I would love to hear what they think about your adventures?
Keep the blog going as I am enjoying your information!
June 4, 2007 at 11:11 pm
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June 5, 2007 at 2:11 am
Lisa Smyth
Hey Bridge,
I can see the Bridget Jones influence in your writing every now and then…
(re: Work is still going well when one of the volunteers doesn’t have malaria, food poisoning OR SIMILAR!)
Great to read about your adventures. I am absolutely green with envy about all the gender equity stuff you are doing. I wish I was there during that debate about women inviting rape by dressing provocatively. We could have exchanged exhasperated glances!
Hope you continue to stay healthy!
Lisa
June 5, 2007 at 9:47 am
Emilie
Salut Bridget!
Thanks for keeping us updated.
It is great to read you… You have such a nice way of telling stories.
RE: deserving rape. I have heard the type of comments you mentionned a lot… in Canada or here in Australia… and from women too! Just think about how people treat prostitutes or strip-teasers who have been victims of sex assault. People usually don’t say it out loud, but they think, they ignore, they disapprove. I think the work you are doing is great. Don’t forget that Canadians are far from perfect though… and they might need you too when you come back
June 7, 2007 at 3:24 am
Tara
Bridget, you simply must get in your hikes so that you can take lots of pictures to show those of us who are feeling a bit glum that we’re not there right now.
Here’s a brief update on Canadian news: your Ottawa Senators just lost – the Ducks are the new Stanley Cup champs. Dalton McGuinty is now promising that he will not raise taxes if elected this fall and this time he means it – I won’t even comment on that.
Please post some pics soon!
Tara
June 13, 2007 at 1:17 am
Margaret
Hi Bridget,
Great to read your comments – thanks for keeping us updated on your adventures. Did Laure Belotti from ORYC altos ever get in touch with you? She’s now in Mombasa with another NGO similar to yours and will be in Kenya till the end of the summer so I gave her your blog address; she hopes to find you!
ORYC is rehearsing for UNISONG now; they had a successful anniversary concert in May it seems. Our trip to the Ukraine (then) was very interesting!
Keep the stories coming!
Margaret
June 27, 2007 at 7:51 pm
Tanya
Bridget,
As always, your stories are so funny, detailed, and so YOU! I’m sure that you’re really ticked at not being taught Kenyan swear words. Ha, ha!
Looking forward to living in the same city with you very soon! I’m sure we’ll create a few adventures of our own…minus the chickens and ‘white girl’ comments. : – )
Tanya